The Ultimate Sacrifice for Love; Makes Sense to Deny Participation


Good evening, everyone! 

Just a quick thought for the day:

Your world is your inspiration. Take mental notes, write poetic evaluations.

Intimate hour! Are you ready? Do you have your comfortable pajamas on? Ladies, you lean towards the casual bedtime attire to bra and panties, right? For guys, just the boxers? Now, how should we come back to explorative writing but with an explicit twist? Let’s start this evening with a question for a warm up:

If you had to risk and lose one of your traditional five senses to make love to your lover, unless of course you associate with paranormal activity, which one would it be, and why?

First, I should verify the rules. Answer whether you will or will not give up one of your senses to make love to your loved one. Is that a permanent thing? Yes, this one decision will change all the romantic evenings for you to engage intimacy with your partner for the rest of your life. Think of it as if you were experiencing Ariel’s dilemma, the little mermaid, where she gave up her voice to become a human. Would you give up one sense for something personal? Now, think about the invaluable importance behind your senses to your unique lifestyle and sex appeal in the bedroom.

This is not an easy task, but this exercise can really open up your mind to amazingly passionate ideas. You will also discover, and possibly release, the inner hopeless romantic nestled inside. Watch out! Can you handle what you are capable of doing? Let’s find out.

Note: Disabled persons will feel left out by their physical disadvantages already, leaving options to only a few of their senses. If you deal with a barrier that hinders your five senses, ask yourself … if you knew that this decision would enhance your love life, would you give up one of the senses you already have for another sense that you have lost for a long time? Think about why you would make that decision whether you agree or disagree, and imagine what life would be like in the bedroom with that final decision that you make. Maybe you said yes, but what will improve the most in your love life? Maybe you said no, what hindered your decision?

Let’s go over the five traditional senses: 


You might refer to yourself as someone who isn’t shallow, but you believe there is some reason for physical attraction to become a core foundation, or key for sexual appeal. You might be right. However, maybe you should start closing your eyes more often during the foreplay? Kisses are not always the ones left to be unseen. If you already close your eyes while you make love, maybe you already know you can live without this opportunity.


What? Are you talking to me? He’s standing right behind you, leaning in to secure his arms around your body. A hug from behind finalizes the moment when his fingers link into yours and his chin rests on your shoulder. Ah, wait, not yet. Where did the whispers of sweet nothings in a foreign language come into play? Oh, right, you made a choice to become oblivious to his words, yet fully awake for his motives. Many men and women prefer dirty talk while making love. Maybe others would rather experience sensual talk or a seductive role-playing that prolongs foreplay. Talk is cheap, but moans are also sounds to explain the pace of the enthusiastic beating heart. Would you rather put them on mute or hear the impact of the penetrating thrusts deep inside? That is entirely up to your personal preference.


Any cheap whores around? Natural body odor enthusiasts? Yeah, that’s right, the smell of this topic might intrigue you to continue reading. How much do you rely on your nose when you engage in intimate encounters? Ah, let me rephrase that, you cute Eskimo kissing types. Does it make sense to alter your sense of smell just to make love to your significant other? Although smell might play a significant role in arousal, you will be missing out when they whisper across your lips, “I’m yours.” Yeah, you might be right about missing that one sensational reason of that moment. If their breath smells, you may never know the circumstances. The truth hurts, but it will be completely ignored. We’ll get to taste later!  Just remember that it might be odorless, but the taste may leave something else behind. Yeah, the aftermath of your dinner and a movie date!


I close my eyes as his fingers aimlessly wander across my vulnerable exposed neck. I am awaiting for his arrival to run his fingers through my hair, pulling me closer to exchange a passionate kiss beyond my control.

Oh, you saw that picture differently? That is completely fine! Wait, what? Say that again? Slower? Oh, you. Maybe later. I dedicate this section to my sensualist out there. Who doesn’t love physical touch? That indescribable feeling when two bodies slowly collide against each other, bare skin rubbing softly against bare skin, in a hot steaming shower. Ladies, it’s that feeling when you’re snuggling with someone in just your bra and panties on, and they leave just their boxers on. Yes, touch would be incredibly difficult for passionate foreplay. Maybe you disagree? Maybe touch isn’t what sparks arousal, but what else would ignite the flames much brighter and warmer if you can’t feel your significant other against you? Let’s bite into one last thing before commenting.


Are you seductively playful? Would you prevent anyone to witness your  chaotic intentions? Ah, this is a moment where you should relax your eyes with my hands over them, and embrace upon our lips. Maybe I am not ready? Let me teasingly brush my lips across yours without a kiss. What? You like bottom lip biting instead? Feel my hands run along the side of your face, smiling at such a passionate embrace.

Warm? Yeah, sorry, it was quite chilly in here. I only turned the heat up just a few degrees higher. How much did you bite out of that last paragraph? Was it all bite and no taste? I hope it was because that was my intent. You should have not felt any desire to taste my lips, but the explorative opportunity in that moment. Do you enjoy the taste of one’s lips with yours? Do you enjoy oral stimulation? Why? Maybe you only enjoy it for the thrill of arousal? Maybe you like the taste of necks? Well, whether you like to taste or bite, decide on your own. You don’t always have to taste what you bite.

Now, I have stimulated interest. Great. I am sure you thought about each one. Did you think about erogenous zones? Did you decide if your turn ons, wild kinky fetishes, or sexual preferences would face difficult barriers? Go back to each one. Re-evaluate yourself, rediscover your feelings, and make that decision. Would you risk a sense to make love with a significant other? What sense would you give up, and how do you explain your answer?

Now, back to that question from earlier:

If you had to risk and lose one of your traditional five senses to make love to your lover, which one would it be, and why? Please comment below!

Tell me how you feel about this question! What senses matter more outside the bedroom, and which ones are the core factors in love-making? You love seeing the world, but maybe your significant other is the world. You risk losing one sense for life, just to make love to them that one time. Obviously, they are not an option, they are your priority. How do you prioritize your senses?

Thank you for reading. Sweet dreams! Keep them dry! Ok, fine, just don’t drown!

Take care!

The Ultimate Sacrifice for Love; Makes Sense to Deny Participation


Good evening, everyone! 

I have to tell you about my next How-To guide for explorative writing! If you still need to review the first one, please visit that page soon! My latest writing technique is called, “L.O.V.E” for a vast array of reasons. First, let’s define it.





Not sure when? Well, let me make this loud and clear. START LISTENING! No, really, listen to your heart before you write. Your mind is too busy trying to figure out how to express your feelings when you have yet to organize them. Yes, please organize your feelings and thoughts into categories. Write them down. Everything should be in front of you. Don’t bother to filter out anything. Just express rather impress. They are all your feelings, who is there to judge?  Let me provide you an example:

So, what if you wrote or typed the following words in two minutes: 

him, eyes, lips, touch, face, tender, passionate, lust, fear, hope, seduction, romance, butterflies, tonight, last night, yesterday, tomorrow, dreams, kisses, candles, strawberries, rose petals …

Well, that’s a lot on your mind, right? 

Start off with subjects, like people.

him, eyes, lips, touch, face, tender, passionate, lust, fear, hope, seduction, romance, butterflies, tonight, last night, yesterday, tomorrow, dreams, kisses, candles, strawberries, rose petals …

Ah, found Mr. Right! Oh, well, fingers crossed! Now, why does this guy leave such an impact on your mind?

him, eyes, lips, touch, face, tender, passionate, lust, fear, hope, seduction, romance, butterflies, tonight, last night, yesterday, tomorrow, dreams, kisses, candles, strawberries, rose petals …

Well, I can see why! You are physically attracted to him! What else? 

him, eyes, lips, touch, face, tender, passionate, lust, fear, hope, seduction, romance, butterflies, tonight, last night, yesterday, tomorrow, dreams, kisses, candles, strawberries, rose petals …

Oh, is he a sensualist? Perhaps, you want him to be a sensualist with you. You might be craving his passionate touch and tender affection for the most rewarding kisses. That is quite a seductive trait! Oh, candle lit atmosphere in a bed of rose petals? As you are blindfolded, strawberries softly glide across your lips. You can smell the sensational fruit right under your nose! What? You want him to feed you? Nice, very warm ideas. Now, what if you dream about him, or desire to be with him as yours? Not feeling a mutual connection? Don’t let your feelings disappear! Write them out! Regardless how he feels, your feelings will help you understand yourself better!

One last time evaluating: 

him, eyes, lips, touch, face, tender, passionate, lust, fear, hope, seduction, romance, butterflies, tonight, last night, yesterday, tomorrow, dreams, kisses, candles, strawberries, rose petals …

Is this a summer fling? A one night stand? A sexual fantasy with a classmate or co-worker? Lust can be quite a challenging deprivation without a sense of control and moderation. Do you fear that this is not going to be a mutual relationship? Do you fall too easily? Does unrequited love look closer than anticipated? Is there a time restraint? Is distance hindering your relationship with the man of your dreams?

Phew, that was a lot to take in! 

So, maybe you have an active imagination, or a passionately deprived imagination? Well, no worries. Embrace it! Tell that man to come closer and take a wild advantage of him. Make him realize you are available for him and only him. This is when you value your thoughts.

How much can you write from all of that? Is it all worth writing about? Well, it is not a crime to write everything out but you want to engage your audience in what matters the most. Value your ideas and prioritize the ones that can really reshape a poetic piece.

Now, ladies, your time has come.

Express how much you took L.O.V.E seriously.

Here’s an example: 

A red carpet entrance of rose petals leading to the bedroom persuades the mind, intrigues the heart, and mesmerizes the eyes. Perfection awaits on a white canvas sprawled out on the bed. The vulnerably exposed man is blindfolded by sugarcoated intentions for a starving artist deprived of sensual encounters. Whisper softly in his ears, “Baby, fear that I am here for only tonight, but hope that your butterflies can handle tomorrow’s hangover of yesterday’s fantasies.” Drunk from tender lips, high as a kite with no strings attached, and hungover by a bottle of lust. The tip of your tongue is ready to explore like a paintbrush, and paint an extraordinarily breathtaking picture to convey your hopeless romantic side; from forehead kisses to waistline teases.

Wow, time for a hot shower! Please leave feedback.

Continue writing! 

Write with your heart, spell check with your mind


Suggestion Box: How To Guides?

Happy Thanksgiving, everyone! Save the bird, chase the pig! 

It’s a pleasure to write to you today to express and acknowledge my gratitude of thanks for everyone and everything in my life. Regardless if a person comes into your life for a reason, a season or a lifetime – be thankful for not only coming into your life and embracing upon the exchange,  but what you can take from that experience. It’s simple: take and apply. Build character by taking more from past experiences and succeed by applying what you learned to establish and re-evaluate situations. Better decisions for rewarding opportunities by taking one step at a time.

Every social networking site is constantly being updated with statuses or tweets about what we’re thankful for in our lives – not just written throughout today.  The freedom of expression is definitely one to write about; literally. Lately, there are quite a few people asking about my way with words, and how I can develop a system that is not only unique within the style but passionate within the context. I may consider to write How-To-Guides to truly open up to my audience. I am willing to provide some techniques and see if they are not only suitable and comfortable for you to adapt, but effective and concise in how you convey your feelings.

Stay tuned, relax today, and embrace the moment with family and friends.

Suggestion Box: How To Guides?

Chaotic Intentions

Take a word, give it meaning, throw it back and watch it gleaming. Take a sentence, give it depth, feel my words flow across my breath. Feel them travel across your neck, please request for a reality check. Pinch yourself, make it hurt, sorry to say, but I’m quite a flirt. I’m not all talk, I also walk. Sexual frustration builds up inside, while words and scenarios are enticed for the ride. Actions are played, and stories are told. Imagination doesn’t end until the lust grows old. Rekindle the lust, trust the second chance, especially when your eyes meet, noses touch, and lips dance. Embrace the pace before you finish the race. Let me give you an example. She’s pinned against the wall with care, penetrating fingers through her hair. Our eyes greet, noses glide, lips meet, and tongues slide. Now that I have your attention, I’ll give you a deep penetration of interest that will make sure you’re an avid reader for a page turning romance novel.

Chaotic Intentions

A New Beginning

So, there’s a high demand that I should start blogging. Young women are requesting that I should start writing an online romance novel. If people enjoy what they read, they’d consider buying a book. I guess all I could say now is intrigue the mind, visually stimulate the soul, and manipulate the heart to work faster to entice and fulfill a hopeless romantic’s deprivation of a dopamine high.


A New Beginning